Why Words and Actions Matching Up Is So Important In Your Relationship

You've most likely heard it before; either from the side of praise or the side of "not praise".

Praise- It feels so good to me when you do what you say you're going to do.

Not Praise- I wish that you would do what you say you're going to do.

When your words and actions match up it builds massive trust and safety.

When they don't it destroys that same trust and safety.

The reason this is such a "touchy" subject is that there is a deep yearning in the collective feminine experience that we as men step into true conscious masculine leadership.

One of the pillars of that is words and actions matching up, it's the deepest form of embodiment.

When you can be this ONE THING to her, most other things will take care of themselves.

The most consistent thing in her life.

The feminine can feel everything; the seen and unseen, the spoken and the unspoken, all of it.

When they feel inconsistency they begin to lose trust, and they close off to us.

They begin to doubt that we can hold them, that we got them.

They begin to feel "naggy" or "bitchy" to us. The truth is they are being neither, what they're doing is testing us to make sure we're actually a safe place and that we are the man that we claim to be.

To be the most consistent, unwavering presence in her life requires you to look inward and remove all the things inside you that rip you out of presence.

This means to create the capacity in your 4 bodies (spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical) to hold all of you AND all of her.

Do the work.

Create the space.

Be consistent.

That is the way of the conscious masculine.

Conscious masculinity is the tip of the spear into your business, your love life, your self care and how you penetrate the world.

Reply to this email and request a call to explore working together in my 1-1 conscious masculinity mentorship.

This 6-month container is deep; you will be invited to look under some very big and dark stones.

It's expensive; the investment starts at $30k.

It's expansive; you will experience levels of wealth, love, connection and fulfillment on the other side that you can't even fathom.

It's life changing; you will not be the same man that you are now.

With love and gratitude,

Sam Gibbs Morris

Conscious Masculinity Mentor + Relationship Coach

Men's Work | Psychedelics | Spirituality | Yogic Leadership

Co-Founder - āletheia breath + sound™

Founder - The Conscious Outlaw Kollective™