A Hallmark of Conscious Masculine Leadership

You're not holding uncomfortable truths well.

Let's break this down.

You feel like she attacks you, nags you, pokes at you, or bosses you around.

You feel like you're being tested, and you are. It's what the feminine does; there are a few reasons behind it.

One is that she is inviting you more deeply into your sacred masculinity, your manhood, and your leadership.

Another is that she is making sure you are in fact her king, she needs to know that you're safe and that you can hold all of her.

The reason that is can start to feel crunchy is that at some point along the road, something happened and the level of trusting you and your ability to lead her took a hit, so she started testing you to regain it.

This testing is something the feminine is always doing, when we as the sacred masculine are locked in we see it as the invitation and we welcome it. It gives us great pride and a sense of purpose to be presented with the test and accept the mission.

This testing is actually one of the feminine love languages; here me out... what she's doing in those moments is giving you opportunities to prove to her you're capable of loving her.  She's actually showing you the way to her heart and to her yoni.

One of the ways this cycle of distrust can start is when you, as the man, didn't hold an uncomfortable truth about yourself or the relationship well; you allowed it to throw you off your center.

Some piece of information was presented to you and you shuttered, your pain body came online, your undealt with shame popped up, or you immediately began feeling like you're not enough or doing something wrong, your energy caved and she felt you close off.

All she wanted in that moment by presenting that information was for you to hold it and step forward, as the king that you are.

When you didn't she felt it and began to question your capacity to hold her and your ability to lead the relationship.

The answer to this dilemma:

• Step 1:  Own it. Plain and simple- call yourself in and acknowledge what happened in that moment. Let her know that you're aware enough to see yourself.

• Step 2: Make a commitment to yourself and to her that going forward you will lean in and step forward when faced with uncomfortable truths; you'll stop looking away from Truth.

• Step 3: Acknowledge that this might be a pattern for you and commit to doing the work to clear it from your system.

• Step 4: Reclaim your masculine frame in the relationship; let her know she doesn't have to hold it all anymore.

The time to step up into our highest form of conscious masculine leadership is here.

Conscious masculinity is the tip of the spear into your business, your love life, your self-care, and how you penetrate the world.

Reply to this email and request a call to explore working together in my 1-1 conscious masculinity mentorship.

This 6-month container is deep; you will be invited to look under some very big and dark stones.

It's expensive; the investment starts at $30k.

It's expansive; you will experience levels of wealth, love, connection, and fulfillment on the other side that you can't even fathom.

It's life-changing; you will not be the same man that you are now.

With love and gratitude,

Sam Gibbs Morris
Conscious Masculinity Mentor + Relationship Coach
Men's Work | Psychedelics | Spirituality | Yogic Leadership
Founder - āletheia breath + sound™
Founder - The Conscious Outlaw Kollective™
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